MyEmoHeart

I want to acknowledge that sometimes, listening to me doesn’t make you popular.

Once the whispers of my voice become rebel yells, it becomes impossible to ignore me, and you’ll find that, at some point, you simply won’t be able to silence me anymore.

This is good news. Be very, very reassured by this. This is the time when magical unfoldings blossom.

But it’s also the time some people in your life get royally pissed because you’re following your inner voice and not listening to theirs.

Don’t worry. They’ll come around. And if they don’t, they’re not meant to be guiding forces in your life. Just keep your heart open. Forgive readily.

And never, ever stop listening to me.

Always trustworthy,

Your Inner Pilot Light

Why do you sometimes feel afraid to experience your emotions fully? What do you fear might happen?

Let me give you one key bit of reassurance, darling. Whatever happens when you lean into the full range of your emotional experience, you can handle it.

Will you break down and cry at work?
Will you feel embarrassed?
Will you lose your temper and throw something? Will you drown in the depths of your sorrow?
Will you feel such profound joy that you’ll fear losing that sense of elation?

You can handle it.

When you tap into me, you connect to a reservoir of strength and resiliency you may not even realize you have within you. No matter what happens, darling - together, we can handle it.

So go ahead - feel what you feel. Lean into the richness of your full experience, and you’ll discover something you may not have realized.

Only when you fully experience the breadth of your emotions can you feel truly ALIVE. Let’s LIVE, baby.

Wheeeee!

Your Inner Pilot Light

I know others have led you to believe that it’s selfish or narcissistic to fill yourself first. But I’m here to tell you that the only way you can truly serve others is to show up in service from a place of overflowing abundance, which requires meeting your own needs first. (Remember what they say about those airplane oxygen masks!)

When you try to serve others from a place of depletion, it’s easy to become exhausted, sick, even resentful or angry. But when you give from a place of abundance, after nurturing yourself first, you become a fountain of blessings, spilling over into everything and everyone you touch.

So please, sweetheart, come to me. Let me fill you.

Like a waterfall,

Your Inner Pilot Light

You are infinitely loved. You don’t have to do anything to earn this love. It’s a gift from the divine, and it’s yours no matter what you do.

You can’t separate from this love.
You can’t disappoint.
You can’t fail.
You can’t lose your right to this love.
You are always deserving.

And this love is unconditional. All you have to do is receive it.

Are you ready?

With open arms,

Your Inner Pilot Light

Forgiving yourself is not about forgetting what you’ve done or failing to learn from your mistakes.
It’s about having compassion for your humanity, knowing that it seemed like a good idea at the time, and trusting that each step you take along the way brings you ever closer into alignment with the truth of who you are - what you value, how you order your priorities, who you love, and why you’re here.

Mistakes are crucial to this process of discovering who you are so you can do what you’re here on this earth to do - self-actualize.

So give yourself a hug - and a break, my love.

In my eyes, you’re perfect, warts and all…

Forgiving you,

Your Inner Pilot Light

I know you’ve had your heart broken.

And I know every time it happens, there’s a part of you that longs to shut down, bar off, close the gate, erect walls - protect yourself from more hurt.

But remember, my precious, when you do that, not only do you fail to protect yourself from the hurt. You also close the cracks through which the light comes in.

Let me shine. Let love in.

Wide open,

Your Inner Pilot Light

Growth takes time.

Masterpieces aren’t created in a day.

And “overnight success” usually takes about 25 years. (Just sayin’…)

So please, be patient with yourself as your soul evolves.

You’re on the right track. You’re doing the best you can. Everything is happening in perfect timing.

And if you can’t be patient, I’ve got all the time in the world…

Patience embodied,

Your Inner Pilot Light

Why is it that you’re so awesome and yet, you have such a hard time believing it?

What can I do to convince you that you’re brilliant, you’re gorgeous, you’re precious, you’re kind, you’re creative, you’re inspiring, and the world needs you to unabashedly shine your light?

If ever you doubt your radiance, please darling, come to me.

I never forget the magnificence of who you are.

Your biggest fan,

Your Inner Pilot Light

You deserve love.
You deserve happiness.
You deserve to feel like you belong.
You deserve for your desires to be fulfilled.
You deserve to feel like the work you do matters. You deserve riches beyond your wildest imaginings. You deserve great sex.
You deserve optimal health.
You deserve to know God.
You deserve to be exactly who you really are.

Just in case you weren’t sure,

Your Inner Pilot Light

I know change is hard. Most people cling to the illusion of certainty the way children grasp a security blanket.

But darling, the only thing certain in life is uncertainty, and the only way to grow, expand, achieve, awaken, open your heart, and find enlightenment is to change.

Just as a caterpillar morphs into bug soup before emerging a butterfly, you will transform a thousand times as you give up who you are to become who you must.

But don’t worry, my love. I am here, constant and steady, enduring and unchangeable, keeping you safe and cheering you on as you navigate this beautiful changing journey of life.

A still point,

Your Inner Pilot Light