“The secret is to not give up hope. It’s very hard not to because if you’re really doing something worthwhile I think you’ll be pushed to the brink of hopelessness before you come through the other side.”—George Lucas, the force is strong with him. This IS the advice you’re looking for., via The Daily Love
“Develop an interest in life as you see it; the people, things, literature, music - the world is so rich, simply throbbing with rich treasures, beautiful souls and interesting people. Forget yourself.”—Henry Miller (via light-essence)
HERE’S WHY IT’S TIME TO CALL B/S ON YOUR PEFECTIONISM!
In a certain sense, perfection is a myth. Major growth, creativity and fulfilled living is possible when you realize that you are a human being and by default, imperfect.
The wise see the perfection in their imperfection and have come to love that part of themselves. Part of being human is being fallible. No matter how “perfect” certain people may seem, it is just not true that they are indeed perfect.
No great task, no great endeavor, no great outcome was ever created in perfect order with a known outcome. Sages, seekers, entrepreneurs, journeyers and anyone who has created anything that changed the world, ALL struck out into the unknown. None of them knew the steps to the outcome beforehand!
If you can embrace the unknown, come to terms with the fact that you will make mistakes and begin to see life as a process of learning, you will give yourself a HUGE advantage towards creating the life of your dreams.
I loved the line uttered by Jeff Bridges as Flynn in the recent Tron: Legacy movie. He said, “Perfection is unknowable.” He was right.
Waiting for the timing to be perfect, waiting to be smart enough, valid enough or “perfect” enough to start your journey is usually fear masquerading as perfectionism. Obviously, if you want to be a doctor, astronaut or other highly trained profession, there is a learning and vetting process you must go through. But, in general, when it comes to expressing yourself, when it comes to starting a business, when it comes to taking a leap of faith, the time to do it is NOW!
You do not need to “become more,” or “be more valid,” or be “perfect” to start. You only need to start. You will learn along the way and hone your skills. You will get better. You will make mistakes and you will survive them. Begin to treasure the journey rather than being “perfect”. Begin to see mistakes as a necessary part of the journey and that it’s by making them that you learn.
Love your imperfections. Let yourself off the hook. Be kind to yourself.
Greatness is constant course-correction. Love does not see your imperfection, but instead sees you as you are and, through the eyes of Love, you are perfect.
Ahhh! Doesn’t that feel better? Know that you are going to mess up and it’s okay. You can start your adventure – now. You are now free to take risks. You are now free to be the great and PERFECTLY IMPERFECT human being that you are. Let yourself go!
“Whatever the present moment contains, accept is as if you had chosen it. Always work with it, not against it. Make it your friend and ally, not your enemy. This will miraculously transform your whole life.”— Eckhart Tolle, best-selling author & speaker via The Daily Love
Hear me loud and clear when I say: DREAMS REQUIRE YOU TO LIVE A SELF APPROVED LIFE! No one’s opinion about your life is more important or valid than your own. And The Uni-verse planted seeds of desire, gifts for you to give that are YOURS and YOURS alone to give. But you have to be willing to be scared and step out. You have to be willing to tell a new story. You have to be willing to no longer justify your fear with the “I don’t have the time or money” b/s. And just step out, trusting that you will be caught by The Uni-verse until you learn how to fly.
Instead of being the person that lets the opinions of others define you, step out and be the example of what’s really possible. Specialize in calling fear’s bluff and separate from the fearful thoughts of those who would rather stay in their comfort zone and die wondering “what if I had tried!”